<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Twelve Two Coaching]]></title><description><![CDATA[Transformation Coach | Founder, Twelve Two Coaching | 20 years walking alongside people through their hardest chapters]]></description><link>https://www.twelvetwocoach.com/reflections</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2026 18:18:51 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.twelvetwocoach.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[What Happens When You Start Wondering What You Want From Your Life and It Feels Too Late?]]></title><description><![CDATA[So much of our life can take shape before we ever stop to question it. 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